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     HOW TO MAKE ANYONE FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU

                                   BY LEIL LOWNDES

DEFINITION OF LOVE?

          A deep, tender, Ineffable feeling affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness.

MY IDEOLOGY ABOUT LOVE.

‘LOVE IS A FEELING AND A DECISION’

                  Love is a DOING word. It requires choices. Hard choices, sometimes. It’s about sacrifice. It’s about faithfulness. It requires commitment. It sometimes hurts and doesn't feel so good. As Daniel Bedingfield said in a song, “Nothing hurts like love, nothing causes your heart so much pain.”

People who think love is a feeling will never succeed in marriage. They will never succeed in friendship. They will be likely to fail in most things they set their hands to.

But what does the world know of the kind of love that the Bible defines anyway? Should it surprise me that the dictionary definition is so far removed from what Paul says in 1 Corinthians? I wonder if older dictionaries ever acknowledged the doing side of love? Is this dangerous limitation of the English concept of love a modern phenomenon? Brush off those old dictionaries on your shelf and let me know . . . .

“Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude.
 It does not insist on its own way; 
 It is not irritable or resentful; 
 It does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. 
 Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, and endures all things.
 Love never ends.”

SUMMARY.

      Firstly, the book (How to make anyone fall in love with you), has 51 contents.

This book is more of a motivational book for people who don’t have the courage, are unable to talk or approach the opposite sex. It inspires you by giving you knew vocabularies, phrases, idiomatic expressions and the techniques involved in using these terms.

       According to the book there are eighty five proven techniques (How to make anyone fall in love with you), and six elements that makes people fall in love. Example

-First impression

-Similar character, Complementary Needs

-Equality

-Ego

-Early-Date Gender-Menders

-R for sex.

       The book generally gives you the guide lines on how to make anyone fall in love with you. In this irresistible, witty guide, internationally acclaimed relationship expert Leil Lownders revels eight five (85) proven techniques to help you capture the heart of anyone you choose.

You will discover how to meet the perfect person,

Successful first moves for hunters and huntresses,

How to make an unforgettable first impression,

How to give first date butterflies,

When you should play hard to get and when not to,

And the differences between men and women and how to use them to your advantage.

REFERENCE:

 “HOW TO MAKE ANYONE FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU” (HARPER THORSONS)

WWW. Harpercollins.co.uk/green. Published by Element 2002

AUTHOR: LEIL LOWNDES, from United States of America. The international best selling author. She is an international acclaimed communications expert.