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HOW TO MAKE ANYONE FALL IN LOVE WITH
YOU
BY LEIL LOWNDES
DEFINITION OF LOVE?
A deep, tender, Ineffable feeling
affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship,
recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness.
MY IDEOLOGY ABOUT LOVE.
‘LOVE IS A
FEELING AND A DECISION’
Love is a DOING word. It requires choices. Hard
choices, sometimes. It’s about sacrifice. It’s about faithfulness. It requires
commitment. It sometimes hurts and doesn't feel so good. As Daniel Bedingfield
said in a song, “Nothing
hurts like love, nothing causes your heart so much pain.”
People who
think love is a feeling will never succeed in marriage. They will never succeed
in friendship. They will be likely to fail in most things they set their hands
to.
But what does
the world know of the kind of love that the Bible defines anyway? Should it
surprise me that the dictionary definition is so far removed from what Paul
says in 1 Corinthians? I wonder if older
dictionaries ever acknowledged the doing side of love? Is this dangerous
limitation of the English concept of love a modern phenomenon? Brush off those
old dictionaries on your shelf and let me know . . . .
“Love
is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude.
It does not insist on its own way;
It is not irritable or resentful;
It does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth.
Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, and endures all things.
Love never ends.”
It does not insist on its own way;
It is not irritable or resentful;
It does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth.
Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, and endures all things.
Love never ends.”
SUMMARY.
Firstly, the book (How to make anyone
fall in love with you), has 51 contents.
This book
is more of a motivational book for people who don’t have the courage, are
unable to talk or approach the opposite sex. It inspires you by giving you knew
vocabularies, phrases, idiomatic expressions and the techniques involved in
using these terms.
According to the book there are eighty
five proven techniques (How to make anyone fall in love with you), and six elements
that makes people fall in love. Example
-First
impression
-Similar
character, Complementary Needs
-Equality
-Ego
-Early-Date
Gender-Menders
-R for
sex.
The book generally gives you the guide
lines on how to make anyone fall in love with you. In this irresistible, witty
guide, internationally acclaimed relationship expert Leil Lownders revels eight
five (85) proven techniques to help you capture the heart of anyone you choose.
You
will discover how to meet the perfect person,
Successful
first moves for hunters and huntresses,
How to
make an unforgettable first impression,
How to
give first date butterflies,
When
you should play hard to get and when not to,
And the
differences between men and women and how to use them to your advantage.
REFERENCE:
“HOW TO
MAKE ANYONE FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU” (HARPER THORSONS)
AUTHOR:
LEIL LOWNDES, from United States of America. The international best selling author. She is an international acclaimed communications expert.